Steve Harvey, in his book "Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man," encourages women to adopt a mindset shift where they prioritize their own self-worth and set clear standards and boundaries in relationships. Instead of passively waiting for a partner to meet their needs, Harvey advises women to take control of their love lives by understanding their own value and communicating their expectations openly. By adopting this mindset, women can attract partners who respect and value them, leading to healthier and more fulfilling relationships.