Harvey advises women to prioritize self-awareness and introspection in relationships by taking the time to understand their own needs, desires, and boundaries. He emphasizes the importance of knowing oneself fully before seeking to understand and connect with a partner, as this self-awareness can lead to healthier and more fulfilling relationships. Harvey believes that when women have a clear understanding of who they are and what they want, they are better equipped to communicate effectively, set boundaries, and make choices that align with their values and goals in a relationship.