Dr. Harvey typically encourages women to approach setting and respecting boundaries in their relationships by first clearly identifying and understanding their own needs, values, and limits. Once they have a clear understanding of what is important to them, they can communicate these boundaries openly and assertively with their partners. Dr. Harvey emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries early on in the relationship and reinforcing them consistently. Additionally, he suggests that women should prioritize their own well-being and self-respect when it comes to maintaining boundaries in relationships.